Love when you're ready,  not when you're lonely

Falling down is a part of life; getting back up is a part of living.  The only people who deserve to be in your life are the ones who treat you with love,  kindness and respect.  The person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an option in theirs.  If some treat you like an option, leave them like a choice.  Trust your own instincts, follow your heart.  Sometimes, you need to make decisions that hurt your heart, but calm your soul.  If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.  Never beg for a relationship.  Be brave to accept the one who really wants to be with you and reject the one who just pretends to be with you.  The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.

BeYOUtiful  is not in the face; beautiful is a light in the heart; purest feeling of the soul.  To be beautiful means to be yourself.  You may not be everyone's cup of tea; you don't have to be.  Tea has never apologized for not being coffee.  You don't need to be accepted by others.  You need to accept yourself because an original is worth more than a copy.  Don't let someone dim your light simply because it's shining in their eyes.   Don't be afraid of losing someone who doesn't feel luck to have you.  Never put them first, if you always come last.  Never give it your all,  if you only get half.  Be with someone who makes you a priority, not an option.  Never give someone the opportunity to waste your time twice.  The one who left you in storms, can never give you sunshine.  Find someone who knows that you're not perfect but treats you as if you are.  Don't waste it living someone else's life.  Always notice the people who are happy for your happiness, and sad for your sadness.  They are the ones who deserve a special place in your heart.

Be careful who you trust.  Salt and sugar look the same.  You will never find the right person if you never let go of the wrong one.  You will lose yourself  trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.  Look for your choices, pick the best one, then go with it.  Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you; people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it.  It's better to spend years finding the right person than to spend your whole life with the wrong person.  The wrong one will find you in peace and leave you in pieces, but the right one will find you in pieces and lead you to peace.  Don't waste your affection to a wrong one who is not responding, but don't miss to keep your affection to the right one who respects it.  The right one will know all your weaknesses and never use them against you.  Believe that when something is meant to be, it will happen.  The right one will always stay no matter how hard things get.  You have to do what is right for yourself; nobody else is walking in your shoes; choose between turning the page or closing the book.

Life is a matter of choices, and every choice you make makes you.  Good decisions come from experience; experience comes from making bad decisions.  A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise.  Rejection doesn't mean you're not good enought;  it just means the other person doesn't realize what you have to offer.  Nice things are rejected all the time by people who can't afford them.  Trust doesn't come with a refill; it takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair.  Once it's gone, you probably won't get it back.  And if you do, it will never be the same.  Broken trust is like melted chocolate.  No matter how hard you try to freeze it, it will never turn to its original shape.  You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.  A relationship is like a house.  When a lightbulb burns out, you do not go and buy a new house; you fix the light bulb.  Anyone can make you smile, many people can make you cry, but it takes someone really special to make you smile with tears in your eyes.


Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.  Do not give your past the power to define your future.  People love to bring up your past when they are threatened by a present.  Often the people that criticize your life are usually the same people that don't know the price you paid to get where you are today.  Don’t be pushed around by the fears in your mind.  Don't let people rent space in your head.  No one can drive you crazy unless you give them the keys.  You are the driver of your own life, don't let anyone steal your seat.  Don't lose yourself by trying to become the person others want you to be.  Don't listen to people who tell you what to do.  Listen to people who encourage you to do what you know in your heart is right.  Be led by the dreams in your heart.

Sometimes, people try to expose what’s wrong with you, because they can’t handle what’s right about you.  Notice the people who make an effort to stay in your life. 
Never forget who ignored you when you needed them and who helped you before you even had to ask.  Temporary people don't deserve permanent feelings.  You CHOSE your life; you didn’t SETTLE for it.  Nobody can take away your pain,  so don’t let anyone take away your happiness.  Everyone wants happiness, no one wants pain.  But you can’t have a rainbow without a little rain.

In every living thing there is the desire for love.  To fall in love is easy; to remain in it is not difficult.  Good days give you happiness.  Bad days give you experience,  and the worst days give you lessons.  Sometimes you need those bad days to help you appreciate the good ones.  Push harder than yesterday if you want a different tomorrow.

Every day is a chance to be better.  Good, better, best.  Never let it rest until your good is better.  You can't change yesterday, so make things right today for a better tomorrow.  Don’t promise when you’re happy, don’t reply when you’re angry, don’t decide when you’re sad.  Never make a permanent decision based on temporary emotions.  Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.

Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.  The loneliness is definitely part of the journey of life.  You realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars.  Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.  Single does not mean you are lonely.  It means you are just resting your heart till you find true love.  The flower doesn't dream of the bee.  It blossoms and the bee comes.  Create your own sunshine on your cloudy days. Vibe your own way, be who you were created to be.

May the sun warm your heart with love.