Love when you're ready,  not when you're lonely

To  loveBe  loved

Love isn't blind; it sees, but it just doesn't mind.  We rise and we fall in love, but we can't choose which one at which time.  Love never dies a natural death.  It dies of blindness, errors, and betrayals.  It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, and of tarnishing.  Betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies; it comes from those you trust the most.

Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.  The only time you fail is when you fall and stay down.  Falling down is a part of life; getting back up is a part of living.  The only people who deserve to be in your life are the ones who treat you with love, kindness and respect.  The person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an option in theirs.  If some treat you like an option, leave them like a choice.  Trust your own instincts, follow your heart.  Sometimes, you need to make decisions that hurt your heart, but calm your soul.  If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.  Never beg for a relationship.  Be brave to accept the one who really wants to be with you and reject the one who just pretends to be with you.  The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.  Forget the Prince charmings and the handsome Kings.  Common sense is seeing things as they are; and doing things as they ought to be.  Only you know in your heart who you truly want to be.  Lead from the heart, not the head.

tiful  is not in the face; beautiful is a light in the heart; purest feeling of the soul.  To be beautiful means to be yourself.  You may not be everyone's cup of tea; you don't have to be.  Tea has never apologized for not being coffee.  You don't need to be accepted by others.  Don't tie yourself in knots trying to be someone you are not.  You need to accept yourself because an original is worth more than a copy.  Don't let someone dim your light simply because it's shining in their eyes.  Don't be afraid of losing someone who doesn't feel luck to have you.  Never put them first, if you always come last.  Never give it your all,  if you only get half.  Be with someone who makes you a priority, not an option.  Never give someone the opportunity to waste your time twice.  The one who left you in storms, can never give you sunshine.  Don't let the same snake bite you twice.  Find someone who knows that you're not perfect but treats you as if you are.  Don't waste it living someone else's life.  Always notice the people who are happy for your happiness, and sad for your sadness.  They are the ones who deserve a special place in your heart.

The pleasure of love lasts but a moment.  The pain of love lasts a lifetime.  Be careful who you trust.  Salt and sugar look the same.  Your life is your sanctuary, not someone's occasional playground.  You will never find the right person if you never let go of the wrong one.  You will lose yourself  trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.  Stress, anxiety, and depression are caused when we are living to please others.  A rose does not grow thorns to look pretty.  Nature made it a necessity against predators.  The people who want to pluck your flowers will always complain about your thorns.  Find somebody willing to put in the effort it takes to stay in love, somebody who is willing to commit to you, body, mind, and soul.  Look for your choices, pick the best one, then go with it.  Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you; people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it.  It's better to spend years finding the right person than to spend your whole life with the wrong person.  The wrong one will find you in peace and leave you in pieces, but the right one will find you in pieces and lead you to peace.  Don't waste your affection to a wrong one who is not responding, but don't miss to keep your affection to the right one who respects it.  The right one will know all your weaknesses and never use them against you.  Believe that when something is meant to be, it will happen.  The right one will always stay no matter how hard things get.  You have to do what is right for yourself; nobody else is walking in your shoes; choose between turning the page or closing the book.  We are often let down by the most trusted people and loved by the most unexpected ones.  Some leave us when we need them the most, while some stay with us even when ask them to leave.  The world is a mixture of people.  We just need to know which hand to shake and which hand to hold.  After all that's life, learning to hold on and learning to let go.  Loving someone who doesn't love you back is like hugging a cactus.  The tighter you hold on, the more it's going to hurt.

Outer beauty pleases the eye.  Inner beauty captivates the heart.  Life is a matter of choices, and every choice you make makes you.  Good decisions come from experience; experience comes from making bad decisions.  A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise.  Rejection doesn't mean you're not good enought; it just means the other person doesn't realize what you have to offer.  Nice things are rejected all the time by people who can't afford them.  Trust doesn't come with a refill; it takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair.  Once it's gone, you probably won't get it back.  And if you do, it will never be the same.  Broken trust is like melted chocolate.  No matter how hard you try to freeze it, it will never turn to its original shape.  You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.  A relationship is like a house.  When a lightbulb burns out, you do not go and buy a new house; you fix the light bulb.  Anyone can make you smile, many people can make you cry, but it takes someone really special to make you smile with tears in your eyes.

Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.  Do not give your past the power to define your future.  People love to bring up your past when they are threatened by a present.  Often the people that criticize your life are usually the same people that don't know the price you paid to get where you are today.  Don’t be pushed around by the fears in your mind.  Don't let people rent space in your head.  No one can drive you crazy unless you give them the keys.  You are the driver of your own life, don't let anyone steal your seat.  Don't lose yourself by trying to become the person others want you to be.  Don't listen to people who tell you what to do.  Listen to people who encourage you to do what you know in your heart is right.  Be led by the dreams in your heart.

Sometimes, people try to expose what’s wrong with you, because they can’t handle what’s right about you.  Temporary people don't deserve permanent feelings.
 Never forget who ignored you when you needed them and who helped you before you even had to ask.  You chose your life; you didn’t settle for it.  Nobody can take away your pain, so don’t let anyone take away your happiness.  Everyone wants happiness, no one wants pain.  But you can’t have a rainbow without a little rain.

You can love someone so much, but you can never love someone as much as you miss them.  The pain of grief is just as much a part of life as the joy of love; it is the price we pay for love, the cost of commitment.  Falling in love is like holding a candle.  It starts melting, hurts you, and then goes off.  Don't be ashamed to weep; tears take away grief; grief is the price we pay for love.  It’s okay to cry a river; just remember to build a bridge and get over it.  You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you.  Love is stronger than hurt, and life is stronger than death.  Pain makes you stronger.  Tears make you braver.  Heartbreak makes you wiser.

In every living thing there is the desire for love.  To fall in love is easy; to remain in it is not difficult.  Good days give you happiness.  Bad days give you experience,  and the worst days give you lessons.  Sometimes you need those bad days to help you appreciate the good ones.  Push harder than yesterday if you want a different tomorrow.

Every day is a chance to be better.  Good, better, best.  Never let it rest until your good is better.  
You can't change yesterday, so make things right today for a better tomorrow.  Don’t promise when you’re happy, don’t reply when you’re angry, don’t decide when you’re sad.  Never make a permanent decision based on temporary emotions.  Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.

Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.  The loneliness is definitely part of the journey of life.  Never ignore someone who cares for you because someday you'll realize you lost a diamond while you were busy collecting stones; you lost the moon while counting the stars.  Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.  Single does not mean you are lonely.  It means you are just resting your heart till you find true love.  The flower doesn't dream of the bee.  It blossoms and the bee comes.  Create your own sunshine on your cloudy days.  Vibe your own way, be who you were created to be.  When the time is perfect, when your heart is full of gratitude, when your hopes are high and your soul peaceful and joyful; time takes you where you belong.

You'll never find peace of mind until you listen to your heart.  Follow your heart, but take your brain with you.


Love was not wrong; timing was wrong; your earth was in a different galaxy, and my moon was in a different sky.