Unlocked   Your   Heart
You can't  fly with a  broken wingYou can't love with a broken heart

Time decides who you meet in life; your heart decides who you want in your life; and your behavior decides who stays in your life.  Never regret a day in your life: good days give happiness; bad days give experience; worst days give lessons, and best days give memories.  Sometimes you will never know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory.  You can love someone so much.  But you can never love people as much as you can miss them.  Those who love you are not with you physically, but always there spiritually.  They are never far, never near, but always with you in your feelings and your tears.  Some memories never leave; they become part of your soul.  If you are heartbroken, still leave your heart open, so pain can find an exit.  Be brave enough to find the life you want and courageous enough to chase it.  Then start over, and love yourself in the way you were always meant to be.

Relationships require an equal amount of effort from both people.  A true relationship is two unperfect people refusing to give up on each other.  True love is choosing the many things a person did right rather than the one thing he did wrong.  True love does not keep the record of wrongs.  The ones who love you never leave you.  Even if there are a hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on.  It takes a strong heart to love, but it takes an even stronger heart to love after it's been broken.  Also, it takes a stronger heart to continue to love after it's hurt.  True love stories never have endings.

The scars on the inside take longer to heal than the ones on the outside.  Cry me a river, build a bridge, and get over it.  The most painful tears are not the ones that fall from your eyes and cover your face. They're the ones that fall from your heart and cover your soul.  Losing love may be a painful experience.  May not look the same for everyone.  Some people will leave you with tears.  But those tears will make you see things more clearly.  Those tears will change your life for the better.  When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead, keep your head up and look forward.  When the sun has set, an ocean of silence, no candle can replace it.  It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.  Tears come from the heart and not from the brain.  It hurts to breathe.

A peaceful mind leaves the past behind.  The past is a place of learning not a place of living.  Never look back at your past; everything happens for a reason.  Don't look back.  Your destiny will never be found in the rearview mirror.  The more you look back, the more beautiful things you will miss in life.  Don't look back with tears; look forward with joy.  Don't look back unless it's a good view.  Never look back unless you can learn something from it.  The only times you should ever look back is to see how far you’ve come.  Never run back to what broke you.  Your destiny will never be found in the rear view mirror.  Once you make the decision to move on, don't look back.  Look at life through the windshield, not the rear-view mirror.  Let your hope, not your hurts, shape your future.  Let your heartbeat be the melody of your life.

Sunset and sunrise both bring opportunities in life.  One gives us the opportunity to dream and the other to do.  If you cry because the sun has gone out of your life, your tears will prevent you from seeing the stars.  Laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.  Every time your heart is broken, a doorway cracks open to a world full of new beginnings, new opportunities.  Moving on from someone you once loved takes time, patience, and self-compassion.  Every breath that you take is filled with hope for a better day.  The good new days are today, and the better days are coming tomorrow.  You forgive people simply because you still want them in your life.  Bad chapters can still create great stories.  Wrong paths can still lead to the right places.  Give people time.  Give people space.  Don't beg anyone to stay.  Give the ones you love wings to fly, roots to come back, and reasons to stay together and weave your beautiful love story again.

Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.  Open your heart to the beauty of life, and life will open its beauty to you. 


May every sunrise brings you hope, may every sunset brings you peace.